Hi Aim,

I too have a DH who is never home. He is 2 and 1. We actually figured out he is home for 1 out of every three to four ovulations.
It sucks especially seeing as his swimmers hate the cold and don't defrost well so we have to have ICSI.
To be honest I barely cope. He has enough worries at work without worrying about me as well. Part of the problem there is that if I tell him how terrible I am feeling he feels guilty for not being home for me so I tend to make him believe I am fine and everything is wonderful. I also find it is difficult to talk to family and friends about it as well because they really can't understand as most people I know are incredably fertile.
You eventually find a inner strength and just deal with it. I live by the saying what doesn't kill you makes you stronger.

I am going thru Concept and find the staff their fantastic. It looks like I am not far from you as well. I am in Orelia