Knowing when to give up or when IVF doesn't work

[nothing2lose]

To stop really is giving up

[anney]

Can you pinpoint where the feeling it is wrong to give up coming from ? Is it that you want to give DH a child or you really want one or it has become part of your "routine"?

[nothing2lose]

Honestly? I think all three for me.

[anney]

Yes, all very powerful drivers and they won't go away in a hurry. It is crap you have to go through this.

[Gigi]

i notice there is a little girl in your avatar N2L, is part of it, your desire to give your DD a sibling? (which i get. i cannot give my DD a sibling, for different reasons).

Are you on IVF forums too? If you're not getting the support you need here at BB (small numbers of people who understand). IMportant to find places where you do feel understood.

so sorry you're going thru this heartache petal.