I think everyone feels the same way when doing IVF, I know I did and we were only on our IVF journey for under a year. For me after several years trying naturally I was willing to put my life on hold for a long as it took. But I can tell you that after the second failed attempt I was feeling deflated and like it would never happen. The last round we did I was already planing what we would do next cycle only to find out it had worked. I think in the end my want for a baby took over any feelings of having to put my life on hold and planing what to do each cycle helped me get by. I wouldn't be in a hurry to leave where you have a good support network because once you do get that bub you will need them as it's a pretty tough gig the first 4 months. Just try and remember they say that if you get 2 or 10 embryos there is usually only one or two successful pregnancies per batch. Bert of luck.