I suppose we just have to never give up hope, be very kind to ourselves, never blames our lives or our bodies for it. And sadly, remember that even if we never get pregnant, as much as we think I life might not be worth living (especially if we will never have any children) we can find happiness and a good life in another direction. At least, this is what Im telling myself all the time, at 42 in 2 months time, no marriage, no boyfriend, no permanent job and no fertility success with donor sperm just yet.





Hi Everyone,

I was just wondering how everyone moves on from the sadness of having failed and miscarried attempts at IVF?

We have a beautiful son and have been trying to add to our family since his birth 21mths ago. This year we have gone through 3 cycles (the middle one was lost at week 9) and I am booked to try in September. I am very worried that my fear of another loss will hinder a positive outcome.

Good Luck to all others undergoing cycles this month.