Very true katbaby and intheslowlane, Dh and i had a chat tonight and things are ok now, its just the money issue getting to him and feeling like we cant enjoy as much but we are both strong ppl and a strong couple so we can get through it. Wow 10 frozen enbryo's is alot! i had 15 eggs collected but only 4 made it to the end, im hoping for a better result next STIM cycle, but this too will most prob be our last STIM cycle. Katbaby im so sorry to hear things arn't looking up for you, but if you really want it don't give up believing because dreams do come true and i really do hope there is a lovely man out there for you. xx