Dear

Katbaby,

You're right, we do need to be kind to ourselves and it is a great thing to know we're not alone.

It has made me feel so much better just asking for help and being able to talk to others.

I hope you have some luck coming your way. I'm very glad that as a society we've progressed so far that we atleast have these options, expensive as they may be.

OneDay86,

Sorry to hear you're in a sad place. I have been there too.

The money is a real problem and men certainly look at things differently. Luckily (???) my DH said not to worry when I wanted to start having children a few years ago and he didn't, he'd be happy to pay for IVF. I'm not sure if he's every regretted saying it, but as our problem is a joint one, he doesn't really have anywhere to go.

Despite this, after we use up our 10 snowbabies, I'm done. It is too hard emotionally. I hope your husband comes around, as you both need support and someone to talk too.

I do feel alot better for typing this and it will be alright for all of us I'm sure.

All the luck in the world,

intheslowlane