i am going through the exact same thing at the moment,we have a car and house that is already big enough so that wont be our main prob,does the family payment go up much after a 4th child??????mine is can i mentally and physically and emotioanlly handle another child to raise,i have to admit that my newest baby who is 5 months old is bringing me sooo much joy and i look at her and think god yes i could have another,it is the older 2 boys that are the hard work,they are rather lazy and fight alot,they are also a bit spoilt so expect alot from me and do not cope very well when they dont get there own way.there is alot of running around with all there sports etc,but in saying all of this i can possibly try to bring up my baby and possible baby to be differently to make things a little easier on me,people tell me all the time i make it hard for myself with the boys by letting them be the way they are.
my dh is open to the idea of another baby so i dont have that as a problem either.i also dont know when i would be considering another,i am 32 but would also like to be free to do the things we wont to do before i am tooo old to enjoy doing them.i think it would be really nice for chantelle to have a sibling to grow up with and play with as her 2 brothers are alot older
nikki