The age old question..to have another baby or not???

Well I have 4 beautiful boys and would have another in a heart beat!! Having had them all by c/s doesn't worry me , i feel fit and could cope both emotionally and physically..but DH couldn't and after 2 m/c one being a blighted ovum, he made the decision to have a vasectomy..one that i was happy with but decided that he had valid reasons and we were never going to see eye to eye...so here i am today hoping there are some swimmers left and am praying for my own destiny child and just a few weeks ago had a false alarm and DH was fine with it all...what will be will be. So we have the room and the bigger car and i feel i could keep going and have babies, but like michelle says you have to stop somewhere and say enough is enough

My feelings will never change but over time i will just accept fate and look foreward to the grand kids and hope there is lots!! I always wanted 4 children with my husband as the eldest is from a previous marriage but DH couldn't bear the thought of something going wrong and losing me..and the last m/c just broke his heart.. so maybe this doesn't help but you just need to see if the longing is there or not and work through it together and come to a compromise.. Good Luck, it's a tough one..
p.s I remember when i had # 4 the lage family suppliment came into frition which was a massive $ 8.00 yes that's right!!


Jan xx