Honestly I found the first year and a half tiring. And we felt housebound. Dd was not the best sleeper

I had 3 at home for a year then ds 2 started school and things eased. Things are great now and I am so glad we had the 4th. I almost had my tubes tied after 3 but couldn't go through with it. While on the table with #4 I knew I was done. (Cs). Tubes were done then.

Very happy with our little family of 6. Of course some days we are still tired and it gets loud and busy but the good outweighs the bad