Did u plan a large family and when was enough 4 your partner?

[myson]

My dh only ever wanted 2. I always wanted to go for 3. We stopped at 2 for a long time and a while back my dh realized i was serious about wanting another one, so he said ok. hence the age gap, my girls are 11 and 8.

but i already know this is definately the last one.

[AmandaJ]

We've just had number 5, DH and I waited until number 4 was over 18mths before we discussed another as he wasn't sure and I defineately wanted another. After our talk we decided that yes we would have another and that would be it, as then our 4wd would be full etc. All through the pregnancy I defineately didn't want any more, but now I'm thinking that yeah I wouldn't mind another, but I know for a fact that DH doesn't, so I just have to accept that he has finished and enjoy every minute with our last.

I would talk to your DH and see if he truely doesn't want anymore or if he's open to the idea. I hope it works out for you, goodluck.

hugs xoxo

[SamiH]

We have just had our last - #3.

We wanted 4 children, but had 2 losses in-between my DD and DS2 - hence their 3.5 year age gap.

We have decided no more as I am getting older now too (37), and without sounding too weird about it - it must be what God planned for us