For us, we are both currently content with the 4 we have although I still detect traces of desire with my wife...not allot but occasionally. From time to time we discuss it, but it ultimately comes down to the fact that neither of us (her especially) are ready to permanently say one way or the other.

Right now neither of us wants anymore, but neither of us are ready to do something drastic that takes the issue away from even discussion. Therefore we know now is not the time to do anything drastic. Right now if we got PG it would not be all balloons in the house, but we both know it wouldn't be the end of the world either and we both would love the little one to pieces. So in our case we are doing nothing right now to prevent (except "Pull and Pray" ) and are waiting for her cycle to return at which time we will use NFP until we are able to actually say we are done - or Mother Nature tells DW we are done (Our current method of BC is not related to our desire to be done or not done).