Thanks mummymoni, but its not looking so good atm.

Also savina, hubby and i never planned on having a big family, i wanted 2 kids and he told his mum that he was never having kids at all, then we met, we had an opsie, and she was the best thing ever to happen to us, after #2 which was a boy everyone said ,oh pigeon pair you dont need any more kids', so we gave everything away, then one night, hubby and i are watching tv, and we just both looked at each other and said something is missing, we need another child, when she was born, i thought i would really like another one hubby said no, i accepted that, then he changed his mind, when it came to #5 we just dtd and if it resulted in pregnancy we were both fine with that, then i said i want one more, hubby said no, i was just accepting that when he did a 180 and said ok we can try in april 09, well that has been upgraded to dec 08.
Hubby likes the idea of one day when all the kids are grown, they come around for a bbq with their partners and our grandkids, and we all have a massive family get together.