Generally around 5 times a week, when ttc or not...

We have lots of outside stuff with them all, and I have 3 still at home all day too, so we are pretty stuffed... BUT....


Bed for the 3 littlies is no later than 8.. the next goes at 9, and the last 2 go to bed at 9.30.. so we go to bed then too... we fiddle while watching our 9.30 to 10.30 show, then when the tele goes off, its time to DTD...

So although its kinds "routine", we do different stuff most nights so we look forward to it... We couldn't DTD any later, from about 2.30am onwards we end up with the 3 littlies in our bed... EVERY NIGHT.... so 10.30 it is, so we can get some sleep....

I find if I get all the house crap done, when we go to bed I can really relax.. if I didn't fold the washing or left dishes or knew I had to get up to a mess in the morning, I'm too stressed and tense.. whatever doesn't get done through the day, gets done between 7.30-8.30pm by us both, so by bed we feel all nice and relaxed...