I would love #4, im one of 6 and want more children (have to wait for the right guy to come along now!!) But as im only 22, and had 3 under 3, i got some god awful comments. We didnt want to travel, we wanted to start our family. My mum doesnt even know i lost a bub in nov 06, im too scared to tell her i was pg, even though i was married... its not good, as you get scared of telling people, at a time when you're meant to be excited!!