Tell ya what I do Maz, once bubs is outa my room I put baby in with one of the older children. That way the toddler can still have their sleeps and I don't have to stress what the toddler maybe up when I am not looking!!! It also gives the older child a real buzz and makes them feel so important! They just love the baby and the bit of responsibility, it also helps with their bonding time if there is a bit of a gap from the oldest to the baby. My older boys love their littlest brother and will evn change a nappy occassionally!