omg catlse I swear I just wrote everything you just did! My kids do all the same things! My two older ones cook as well but they like it and they have on occasion paid bills for me, done banking, even done the whole weeks shopping if I write a shopping list. they are very self sorted and if anything should ever happen to me they know how to do all these things for themselves. Josh knows how to put money in and out of peoples accounts, he is marvellous he is 16 and a half.