I know that she doesnt like me. Its not like I "stole" dh away from her. She just kept telling him that she was the best he'd get and frankly he's now done better She likes to think that sds has no father and she purposly does things to upset dh eg. dressing Troy up in girls clothes, taking a pic and sending it to dh. She would feel I was undermining her life because she's never had a paying job. A soon as she got out school she got pg. So her life has been Troy and by asking to take him for a weekend would be crushing to her.

At the same time, this isnt about her or dh or me. As far as I'm concerned its about Troy and Jack and the fact that they have a right to a relationship with each other. And because I would never let Jack stay over at her house, Troy will just have to come here. Does that sound too harsh?