If she doesnt like you i wouldnt call her it would start a whole heap of drama; maybe you should be pushing your DH to make more efforts to contact her (same thing with me apparently i "stole" my DP away from her...yeah good one love, shes never had a paying job from what i know, i wish would could obtain full custody..anywho)

My jaw dropped re the girls clothes...wtf? How old was he at this point? Poor Troy!

So is MIL going to court to try and keep seeing Troy? If your DH wants t ospend more time with Troy could he just speak to lawyers? I have no legal experience what so ever but couldnt he take her to court and simply deal with his solicitor?