Thank god im not alone. I do give bubs heap of outside play time its just that i really have to watch her as we have heaps of climbing stuff about for the other kids she could really hurt herself if she is not carfull. I m not happy feed ing at night but if its normal i might back down she slept till 1 30am then stirred a while till about 2 30 am so not too bad i will keep it going for a week see how far a get with it then maybe go back to one feed. Its just that the other 3 were off the bottle by 12months so its a bit or unknown area for me plus the added presure of the mil telling its not right and she wont baby sit if she has to get up through the night to feed so getting a nanny night is hard. i had a chat with hubby last night i will sleep at a friends house on the weekend so i can rest he will be home with kids then the next night he can go a sleep over sounds silly but we both need rest so bad at it might be the only way to get it. im making a appt with the dr this week see what she has to say fingers crossed its more stress and natural remedies is all that is needed. Thanks again
kath