I'm sorry you thought I was harsh, but I'd say the same to you face to face over a cuppa tea. In that case you could see that I'm just sort of bouncing things back to you. I'm clearly not the only one that is thinking along the same lines.

At the end of the day no one can see each other, or know who each other is - there can't be any anger involved if there is no personal ties iykwim.