What made you decide to add to your family if you thought you had finished at #3??

[Ilithyia]

I think it all comes down to whether you can dismiss your yearning for another one or not. If its on your mind 24/7 and driving you crazy - you probably should have another one.. LOL

Having just been through this decision making myself - I wish you all the best. When I was pregnant with Eden I swore black and blue that she would be my last.

And then she was born.. and I desperately wanted another one!!!!

Good luck mate

So does that mean we can expect to hear some exciting news in the near future Mel?


AFM - I always knew I wanted 4. I grew up in a family of 3 kids and didn't really like it. Plus I don't do uneven numbers. 2 isnt enough so 4 it is!!!

I would also contimplate 6 if we were financially stable and my body could handle it!