i didnt mean to sound harsh abotu the costs, so apologies if it came accross that way.

But i think using the term "greedy" is a bit rough also. I dont consider myself greedy for wanting to celebrate my children, in fact i think its nice.

I dont have alot of money at all. In fact i am stoked its another boy so i have everything already lol.

Its just interesting to hear the reasons behind not having a second one.

When it comes to weddings, i dont think of a present for the bride, i see it as sharing a day to celebrate love.

Engagement parties? whole other story! I didnt have one, nor would i.