thread: How would you deal with this situation (money issues etc)

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  1. #1
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    May 2007
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    We dont want to disclose our income as such because we are doing fine and dont want people to help us - just quit with expectations of how much money "should' be given to other people.

    As soon as we say we cant afford it - MIl thinks we are struggling (we arent we budget well !) and wont let up on giving us money. But we dont want the money.

    does that make sense? lol

  2. #2
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    Dec 2008
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    Either your DH is going to have to have a chat with your MIL or you're going to have to keep doing the nodding & ignoring thing.

    I wish you weren't being pressured about money. It really is nobody's business (especially not your MIL's) how you spend your money or how much you choose to spend or give as gifts.

    xox