^^^^ I agree on all these three things... I went so off track with my 'opinion' I feel like I missed the point

Yes, I think it would be nice for her to text.... but I understand why she didn't.
Yes, I think you should text her... but I understand why you haven't.

What I wanted to emphasise was that...
I think you are both waiting for each other... and it only takes one person to initiate something.... maybe, in this case, as hurtful as it is that she hasn't been able to text.... maybe she needs to be looked after....
I also agree with you myturn, well said hun