- people putting a dummy back in your child's mouth (but you can see they just touched the bit that goes in their mouth and you know they didn't just wash their hands)
Im a firm believer in some germs beng good for them so I dont really worry about this
- offering your child food you don't want them to have
DD2 has food intolerances so I always ask if the food has dairy in it if it is for her. Generally though I dont have many people offer food without asking me first
- playfully teasing them in a way that they think is ok (no malice intended) but that you aren't ok with (eg playfully calling a chubby kid 'fatty' or something like that)
None of my kids are chubby but generally I come straight out with 'I dont think that is the appropriate thing to say to an impressionable child'
- letting their older children touch a baby when they are sick etc
Generally I say to the child they can have a cuddle when they feel better
- disciplining your child
I dont have a problem with people telling my kids off but there are relatives that go too far so I just say to them if you cant discipline our way then please leave it to us.