Both boys can use a fork and spoon to eat but generally prefer to use hands. Occasionally have toddler knife.

I do cut everything up for them before placing on table for them.

We can end up with a huge mess and it drives me nuts!! We encourage use of cuttlery and during speech path appts have worked with an OT whom made special placemats with a crocdile on to remind DS1 to "snap snap" his fingers to right place on the fork or spoon.