Mmm tough one.

I like Pac's thing about vouchers - I spent $100 on my sis last year for birthday for gold class vouchers for her and BIL, which have a 12 mth expiry, and I know she hasn't used them. I will be asking her soon cuz if she doesn't want to go, give them to someone who does!!!!

But, flip side, a friend of mine, for my 30th, said she'd gotten me a voucher for a "pamper day" at a fancy spa, but it hadn't arrived in the mail so she just gave me the brochure and said she'd pass on the voucher when it arrived. Never got it off her. Assumed she had forgotten to actually buy it or something, never said anything.

I'm now 32, said to friend randomly just a week or so ago something about it and she got really upset - they charged her for it but she never received it. Said she was going to follow it up. So I wish I'd said something sooner!

But actual gifts, no. Some of the things we got for our engagement I have regifted or donated to charity auctions as they are just not our taste. Sad but true, sorry.