I was talking it over with one close workmate who i have confided in about whole ivf thing and she mentioned that her fiance actually deferred uni for 1 year since they were going overseas for 5 weeks, and following that they have their wedding to organise next year.

Here i was thinking that doing ivf wasn't a good enough reason to defer studies! I just have that feeling or silly perception that im giving up or failing myself if i dont juggle it all.

And yes what a Rollercoaster!! We haven't even started it but the the last several months of just deciding to do ivf have been up and down!