Yep - I was asked by DH why I came on here when some times it has me in tears of dispair. It's hard for him to understand because he doesn't see the point in spend a couple of hours on the net. But I come because I can get that support that I can't get here.

My DH is great, but there's only so much he can do when he's already carrying so much guilt about us needing IVF. And I can't open up to him in the same way without risking him feeling a little to blame about the frustration/disappointment we've had so far.

A recently pregnant friend demanded to know what I was doing on here. All I could think was "F YOU!! It's not a secret website you only get access too when you hit 3 months!!!". But she's just arrogant and rude (but I'm still very happy for her & her pregnancy).

So you're not alone in spirit & written-word. We're only a post a way when you need a chat, to hug you when you're down, and to cheer when you finally get your BFP!