hugs, I come here too for the support and understanding...sometimes to share, sometimes to offer support and sometimes to vent..it does help... And as mayaness said- when I feel I need to step back from it for a while, I do, which is what I have been doing lately, as we have had to stop trying to a while and I needed to step back from all of it for my own sanity, and have a time out. But other times I am here all the time posting...lol. I love knowing this site and the lovely ladies here, are there when I need them