Thank you for saying that. I am in Melbourne.

They just keep reminding you of your age and blaming you for trying even after they explain clearly the numbers of success.
I have had to begin every question with'I am not asking for miracles and do fullly understand there are no guarantees....' then your question or they immediately say stuff like, there are no guarantees...really irritating.
The first place actually had me on stims for 3 days when I called with a question...they asked if I was PG ! I didn't know they were supposed to call with the results, chem. , negative ,etc... What if I was a dope and was PG or had an ectopic and didn't know? They never bothered to follow up.No paperwork. Really disgraceful. I am so mad at myself for not cancelling there and then but I had my eyes on the prize and hoped it would work as I had begun my stims.

The new person is at the other big clinic here and not much better. I asked her if it mattered if the sheets from the embryologists were blank from clinic # 1. She said it means nothing !
Both transfers (fresh) have absolutely no marks on the lab worksheet except my name sticker with info. How is that not important? What if I do dramatically worse with her protocol ? She will have no idea of past history to make a future diagnosis. It was 2 months ago.
Sorry to rant but I'm so hurt that neither cycle had a chance and the new one seems like a dud also.

Did you get scans and bloods during your cycles? I had one scan to count follicles before OPU and no bloodwork after the first before everything.

I thought it was wierd but they were acting like I was a pest for asking them.