Thanks samandpoppy.
We are the same age and if you are saying to take it easier, I am sure you're right.

I just hate how they say 'at your age' at every visit then do everything under the sun to drag it out so I age more during the wait for the next appointment.

I guess you're right about the scans and bloods(dislike them anyway) but it was just hard knowing some doctors care if the lining is the right thickness and ready for an embryo and check hormone levels and adjust that so it's as welcoming as possible and the 2 I have seen just put em back and pray. If this works it'll be a miracle anyway.

Maybe my old auntie is right...I shold just relax and I'll fall PG...

Thanks for the good advicw