alison: sorry to hear about your FIL. Doesn't your clinic start you on something to stop you ovulating before they start the follicle stimulating drugs ?

joe: that sounds good, its annoying though when they start to change plans and you have organised care for your DD, i didn't realise we live close to each other, i also had to travel down to sydney for my epu and the pgd to be done. We ended up taking the kids with us the last time i had epu, DH went in & did his bit and then he took them off for lunch while i had epu, we only figured out it was doable because the time before our DS was vomiting with a gastro bug and we had no choice but to take him with us