Wow that a tough one molisa. I didnt realise the problem was with hubby's gene.

I remember Foxy going thru the same decision making process before trying her last cycle, then giving her own eggs one last chance... and look what happened.

I honestly would go at least one more cycle before using a SD. It really is trial and error.

So if you do use a SD will it be ivf or insemination? And do you know someone who can donate, from what i hear the wait for donor sperm is quite long. Unless you have your own.