Dutchie, I can't even remember who I suggested you see, was it MT at MIVF ?
I dont want to seem like I am pushing a Lap, I just wanted to write so that other ladies knew, the wait and Mercy Hospital for a public Lap, was 5 months, with everything else going on, the time flew.
Ive been MIA as my mum has been visiting me from OS, we have had a wonderful time together over the last three weeks. Due to my MC, stress from work my depression has reared its head again and i am back on my meds, didnt want to be here again as i feel it pushes back our ttc,
discussed with mum what are plans are and we have decided to go ahead with one more EPU then discuss surrogracy either OS or with a friend here who has offered several times, however i know that she would like one more of her own (was discussing planning it after giving birth for us) but have found out that she will need to be infertile if she is to carru for us in Vic. i wouldnt want her to have surgery on her tubes esp if she is wanting more children, but love her every day for her kind offer.
So IVF 15 will be here soon enough, waiting for af then going to do a biopsy on day 21 (even though my cycles are so irregular)
i hope everyone is going well here, Holly congratulations again. xx
better go and keep my dog company, he is really missing my mums attention, or more to the point endless supply of food!!!
WLAB- Yes, I'll be seeing MT at MIVF Freemasons, I really hope she has some ideas for me.
5 months for a lap seems pretty reasonable to me, good to know. I imagined the wait to be a lot longer publicly.
HB- congrats thats fantastic news - how exciting
WLB - im sure everything will work out. Where are you going on your o/s trip? that is something to look forward to.
Duchie - hope you get the answers you are looking for. I have had a HSG it was uncomfortable like period pain, perhaps have some pain killers before you go. They can do a lap and HSG together as i had that as well.
Thinking of you all - Infinity, JMB, Anoys, Loula and anyone else i have forgotten
AFM - havent been here for ages, just taking a break from the site. Mon i start testing for ovulation to have FET (blast) the FS reckons it will work, but he has said that everytime.
Can ppl tell me what they are thinking before going for FET or anything along those lines (iui etc) as i still feel it wont work, i am quite negative and feel that it will never happen.
I know we need the rain but is it going to stop? I wanna see the sun!
Holly - Congratulation! Every LTTC pregnancy should be celebrated - it has taken you guys such an incredibly long time and I am very happy for you xxx
Loula - good to see you around. I understand about the depression, I am also on meds and have some really dark days. Hope you are doing okay, please know we are here if you ever want to talk.
toby - I try to stay as positive as I can. Nobody can say that your positivity/negativity can conclusively make a difference, but I would rather the 2ww be a hopeful positive experience, instead of a negative depressing one. If it doesn't work you will be depressed enough as it is. JMO though, and I know that it can be very hard to keep going with that positive attitude.
AFM - Waiting for AF to arrive, have been in a bad mood for the past week and on CD 31 so it should be here already but no doubt my body is playing games with me. When AF arrives I can book my day 21 appt, and then start IVF next day 1.
We are off on a mini holiday next week - Barossa Valley for 4 nights staying at a B&B which will be nice. Murray lost his job on Friday (he is a teacher so he will at least get to work until the xmas holidays) but it puts huge pressure on us to find him another job for next year. He is really depressed over it all, and so it will be nice for us to spend some time together.
I have booked an appointment with Dr Thompson at Concept in Perth for January in case this last IVF cycle doesnt work. We can access donor sperm through our clinic so need to move clinics to do that in the new year. The bonus is the new clinic has a lot cheaper fees, but I am still struggling with the idea of leaving the people who have gotten me this far. Hopefully it doesnt get that far though.
toby- just wishing you the very best for you FET, I know it can be hard to always be positive especially when things don't seem to be working. Try to keep faith hun, IVF can and does work and I'm optimistic that it'll work for you too when the time is right. And thanks for letting me know that a lap and hsg can be done together, good to know.
Loula- Sorry to hear that your depression has reared it's head again. Hopefully the meds will have you back on track very soon and you can concentrate on TTC again.
BecD- Enjoy the Barossa Valley, sounds so nice. BOL with your appt in Jan but I'm hoping for you that you won't be needing it because your Nov cycle will be the one.
infinity- BOL for EPU hun it was this weekend right? Here's to lots of lovely eggs.
anyos- Hope your travelling well hun, thinking of you and fingers still crossed over here for your miracle.
A big shout out to everyone else, hope you're all tracking nicely.
AFM- Well I emailed FS yesterday and asked if we could have a lap and hsg done at the same time, I really hope it's given consideration esp as FS once commented that it looked like I may have endo and I for one would really love to know either way if I do or not. We also got confirmation of DPs surgery in Dec, really, really looking forward to that. 17th Dec at 9am here we come!
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