WLB - thanks, you make perfect sense and that's exactly how I feel. I understand the 1 day thing, sometimes it's not even a whole day! Have a fabulous time away - you deserve a great break. Hope the cold goes away before you leave. xx

Possums - self preservation is exactly what it is. I wish you didn't know exactly how I feel but it is a great help that you do understand iykwim?

BecD - excellent news! Your embies sound terrific. Heaps of sticky vibes and best of luck for the hard wait ahead. Crossing everything that this is it for you. Pop in an let us know how you're going. Looking forward to hearing great news on 2 November. You can do this!!

Hello to everyone else. Huge hugs right back at you all!