Lairdoz - I am sorry to hear the news. Just hang in there. You have a beautiful daughter, and baby #2 is waiting for you somewhere, just give him a chance.
Try not to stress too much, and if people around you are pregnant and it is too hard, then stay away for a little bit. But be happy for them! It is hard knowing that there are people out there who fall pregnant "accidentally" when we in here wish that could happen to us, but everything happens for a reason, and your friend who is not ready, well it is probably just her time, and she is pregnant for a reason that is above her and you and all of us in here.

Your next FET is soon, which is very lucky for you. Try and relax a little before hand and get your body and mind in to the right place.