Oh Bee, that must be so sad for you. You don't need any upsets atm.
As you are a close family, I'm taking an objective standpoint on this one.
Does your sister know about this IVF attempt? If she does, it may be quite possible she thought it may upset you to talk about today? If she calls every day to see how you are, it's seems unlikely that there is any ill intent.
How do you get on with BIL? Is there any chance it may have something to do with him? Strange about the sisters though - :-k . Unless he's trying to make up for lost time. Possibly this is the case and your sister, again, didn't want to upset you atm? Or, could it be a case of her not having a say in it?
I hope I haven't offended with any of those maybes. Just throwing things up to see how they land. This is too painful for you so atm you probably can't think straight about it.
Whatever the reason, it's still so hurtful. I feel for you.
Take care and remember we're all here for you.
Love
Sue
:luck: :luck: