I'm a complete and total feminist, but the one thing I didn't even try to do was the pregnyl injection (I only had one, but it was my trigger shot). DH snapped it, mixed it, put it in the syringe, and even injected it for me - I was an emotional mess after ten days of gonal-f pens.

So I can't do anything except offer you my for letting down the gender. Except to say that pregnyl is really hard, and two of my friends who are going through IVF also had difficulty getting it all in. Google helps.