Hello all

I'm really feeling like a failure at the moment, and just want to feel like I'm doing something positive to increase our chances for next time.

Thanks
FG
Hi FG

I so sorry the first lot of cycles were unsuccessful for you. I am in the same boat.

It appears you had a reasonable number of mature egg collected. I am not sure what doses you were on or whether you had day 3 transfer or not. I think it is important that you ask your FS about these things, that is,

1. Was my med dose optimal (it seems yes if you had 12 mature eggs)
2. Should I consider day 5 vs day 3 (From my understanding day 5 embies have a much higher success rate. I had 3 failed day 3 transfers and my first day 5 was successful, only that I later m/c... how unlucky yeah?).
3. Should I have 1 or 2 embies transfer... what are the pros and cons?

Good luck with your cycles... I would probably be doing my next cycle at the same time with you... keep us posted.

Kahlan