I totally understand where you are coming from. Out of 6 frozen embies I got just one survivng the thaw. It's just heart breaking isn't it? I did get a BFP out of that 1 but miscarried.
After a few failed cycles and on advice from the nurses at my clinic I have just changed to a new FS. Within 2 weeks of our initial appointment with him, I had a histeroscopy, D&C and a lap done. He found endo which my old FS never even thought of. I've had it all removed now and am having another FET cycle next month. Have you had any investigative surgery done?? I'm so glad I finally did.
The other thing my new FS has talked to us about is giving my body more support after a TF. He says that if AF is coming before your BT date (which always happened to me) it could indicate you are not getting enough support-drug wise. So he is going to give me extra support next cycle.
Another very very scary thing, is that we had 4 embies frozen at blastocyst. He wants to thaw all 4 and pick the best 2. It is his opinion that only the best quality embies from a cycle should be transferred to give you the highest chance of a live birth.
And the last thing he is doing differently, is my transfers will be done under ultrasound. He says he likes to see exactly where the little embie goes, to make sure he has exactly the right spot.
I know not all these options are suitable for everyone but I hope maybe this gives you some ideas to talk to your FS about.
I also will not do a cycle without IVF. My FS says it is a must too.
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