Hello everyone,

Thanks for the advice. I've spoken to our FS about other tests that we could do, but she is not keen to yet - does not think that we have had enough put back to warrent that approach - I think that is also her approach to day 5 blasts - so far we have had day threes. I'm on progesteron post transfer as I get lots of spotting, so fingers crossed that base is covered. I really just hope it is a numbers game and next time ours comes up. Since this post my SIL announced her second pg - I'm so mad that they did not consider where we were up to with our treatment before telling us - I think waiting just a week would have allowed me to deal with it just that bit better and would have lessened the felling of loss.

Nicole - I hope that you enjoy your break, sounds like a great idea and am sure it is well deserved. Hope that it is the perfect springboard for a succesful cycle.

Dusty - am sending you so many positive vibes, what an amazing journey you are on and I dont know how you stay so sane and giving.

Bel - thanks for the insights into your treatment - it sounds like a different approach and I hope that it works for you - it does seem to make sense. We too are trying to keep going with IVF with everycycle - we have only missed one due to study pressures, but it does take an emotional toll.

Kahlan - thanks for your advice on the questions - the 1 vs 2 is a big one and something that we are seriously considering...I look forward to being a cycle buddy : ) Good luck!

Batcoat - thanks for the perspective - it is so hard to be positive about how we go. I wish you a BFP

Good luck all and thanks for the support