What do you do next?

[~BecD~]

Thanks for all the advice ladies.

Murray and I had a big talk last night and I think we are going to try and fit another FET before the end of this year and take advantage of the safety net.

After that I think I am going to set up an appt with both my FS and also someone from Concept to get a second opinion. Hopefully they can run some additional tests on reccurent implantation failure and I can aim to lose some more weight.

We can't afford to do another stim cycle until our tax returns come back, so probably August, at which point it's probably better for us to wait until January again for the safety net... so confusing as to what to do.

I think I'd like to look into Assisted Hatching, apparently that can assist in people who have had failed transfers before.

Another thing that we are considering is starting the process for local adoption. I dont think we are quite ready to go as far as international adoption but Id like to at least find out what we need to do if we go down that path. Id also like to look into weekend/respite car, especially of newborns/young children. I dont know how much demand there is for it, but i could be facing an uphill battle with Murray to convince him this is a good option.

I just dont want to feel so desperate anymore, like there are no other options. Murray panics easily and so its easy for me to feel that way.