Hi jmmum

I have been thinking pretty much the same thing as you these past few days. I am 40 and haven't yet achieved a BFN from either natural, stim or flare cycles. I have been starting to think that maybe a child is just not in our future, which saddens me but I am also realistic that we can't continue with this IVF process forever, for mental, physical and financial reasons. We have a life to live and while it won't be the same without a child, we will still be happy I am sure.

I haven't really discussed this with my DF yet... but I am pretty sure he will be supportive of me either way, whether I want to continue or stop. He is slightly more pragmatic about the whole thing whereas I have been letting my emotions take over most of the time.

I guess what I am trying to say is that you are not alone. There are lots of us out here who are dealing with these same questions each cycle and wondering that maybe just one more will give us a H&H pg. I wish I could give you some amazing words of wisdom, but all I know is keep listening to your heart and your head and enjoy your relationship with your DH!

Take care,
xx