Bw - i think at some point with IVF we all start to feel like this and im not saying that we should or that itis ok.

I q'd something with one of my nurses a few years ago and she stood strong with how she thought it should be and guess what she was wrong and if she'd even bother to look at my file (she kept telly me she didnt have it infront of her but 'it' was how things were done) I called 5 times in total to confirm! you'd think the bloody women would do the right thing, check and call me back but no and it ended up with us nearly loosing embies she was just luck they went to blasties or i dont know what i would have done.

She is no longer there. im sorry for what you are having to go through at the mo and will be thinking about asking more q myself from now on