thanks FG - I just posted to you in another thread - so sorry about AF, but I'm hoping it is just spotting which I understand is common

as for a plan..well, I have 1 frozen that is being thawed and will be transferred in tomorrow if it survives. After that (if it doesn't work & I'm not feeling optimistic) - no plan but to try again - I feel like I'm at a casino trying to beat the odds! October will be a IVF-free month as I'm going overseas for work (on a trip I'm looking forward to), and then back to the drugs etc. If it works out that I'm home when ovulating, we will give it a go the old fashioned way!!