maybe because you still have a few days until your blood test, do your hpt in the morning. this is the best time for a reading.
good luck hun and try not to despair, ive only been waiting a day and feel so nervous already, so goodness knows how all you other girls feel.
every little twinge and cramp makes me think AF is one her way, technically she was due yesterday, so that makes me twice as worried.... just keep reminding myself that its just the crinone
Sorry to hear you got a BFN, it's cruel I know ................. but I dont know what esle to say. I have been there 3 times before (now on 4th 2ww), all I can say is if you have the oppotunity GO AGAIN.
Reags - I really hope this is your time you deserve it! As heart breaking as every BFN is I'm no where close to ready to give up, gotta love being stubborn!!!
Sonya - Good luck! I know the 2ww is so hard and I think our minds end playing tricks with us I'm suprised we all arent in the looney bin
I am new to this forum and this is my story. I have undergone 2 IUI and this is our 4th IVF attempt. Tomorrow I'll have my blood test to see if I am pregnant. I am so scared of the results. I pray and hope that it will be a successful outcome. We had our embryo (morula-blastocyst) transfer on Monday 23rd of April.
I don't have any symptoms and am very confused. Is it normal not to have any symptoms at all leading up to period/pregnancy?? I use to have symptoms leading up to my period bu now there is nothing. Love to all.
Hannah - Welcome! It's sooo hard isn't it! I've never been pregnant so I can't offer any advice on symptoms, I'm looking for some answers too.
I actually feel pretty good physically..just sore (.)(.) and period ache that comes and goes.
We haven't HPT yet. So frightened to! We have decided (and revisited decision every day!) to enjoy the 'possibility' of being pregnant..much better than this up down is it/isn't it saga..been there..so that is the story today anyway!
How's everyone else going? Loula?
Good luck Jesse & Reags
Kat? any developments? Glad you managed to change your test date. I agree, DH is a MUST!
sonya1 - sticky vibes for you!!
Collo - I was on crinone last cycle and it did nothing to stop AF! She reared her head 4 full days before my BT. Maybe that is why we are reluctant to get too far ahead this time
Thank you for your welcome. I just woke up this morning at 6am and am very anxious about the blood test for pregnancy this morning at 9am. I pray and pary that it will be positive. I think I may be slowly going crazy.
Don't post alot but am going crazy here! We did our first IUI (with clomid & pregnyl) this month & I have 4 more days til they test, 8th. AF could come anytime from Sun onwards I just hope she stays away at least until I get to the clinic!
Tried real hard not to look for signs this month but there have been a few things, clumsy, forgetful, hair feeling weird, urge to re-organize every cupboard in the house & of course cramps, sore bbs, tired etc. All of which could be the fact that all I can think about is the result next week!!!! Don't think I should be driving at the moment
Oh its soooooooo frustrating. Good luck to everyone else in this old boat.
I had my blood test this morning and burst out crying uncontrollably. Just prior to my blood test I had a bit of spotting day 16 from day of fertilisation. So far, I have not had any bleeding. I have started searching for holidays to take my mind off this. I understand how hard it is for everybody and I hope and pray to God that you all achieve your dreams of having your family.
I have been with my husband since age 25 and he 23. We always wanted a family and never thought we would have any problems. I have always wondered why I never fell pregnant as we use the rythm method and condoms for contraception. We sometimes never used anything at all during my fertile period. Only when we started the journey of parenthood did I realise that something was not right.
I wish I could give everyone a It's so hard going through this
Hannah - when will you hear the results? I have everything crossed for you, I'm so sorry it's been such a hard day, the waiting is the worst part I think
Clare - I completely know what you mean, wondering if every ache or being tired is a sign than I wonder if I always feel those things but just don't normally pay attention it's enough to send you crazy! I hope you have a busy weekend planned to keep your mind occupied. Fingers crossed for you
Smudge - your so strong not testing! When's your blood test?
Collo - that's exciting! Did you test again?
How is everyone else?
I have everything crossed for all us, we deserve this! Hope everyone is hanging in there, at least it's Friday !!
Oh Hanna, I'm thinking of you. Hang in there. :hugs:
Jesse - my bloodtest is Mon. I'll be bashing that pathology door down I tell you! I'm surprised my self that I haven't tested. To tell you the truth, apart from the sore & heavy (.)(.) I feel good! Maybe it is denial and not wanting the hope shattered.
My blood test was negative. I spoke to my counsellor for the first time and it was really useful. I highly recommend it to everyone going through IVF. The counsellor was able to tell me that I need to look at the whole IVF cycle as a longterm plan and of course have plan B, C etc. I know it is not ideal but I have to look at other options as well.
I have decided to get my life back, so I am making a list of the things that I would like to achieve other than having my biological baby. My whole life plan needs adjustment and I can't have a narrow view of happy families with kids, birthday parties to rule my life. I would ideally love to have that but that is not up to me and I should'nt punish my life with fear of not achieving that.
so sorry hon to hear your up-setting news .......................... can really understand how you feel (been there 3 times b4). You sound like a strong person and have done the right thing by talking to counsellor. I found it helped after 2nd ectopic and having remaining tube out. Was told the options of ART and could plan from there what was going to be our focus.
Be strong, take care and good luck on your journey
Sorry again to Hannah ................. what are the rest of you guys upto ??
Jessie and Kat ??
Best of luck and baby dust on Monday to Smudge (stay strong).
Also sticky baby vibes going out to all of you for next week
Anna, Sonya, Collo, Loula, Bellamum, and CAH
Hope I have not forgotten anyone (trying to keep up with everyone on here).
I am trying to remian positive and not read into any signs / symptoms at the mo. Feeling ok, but weird (you know). As this is our 4th attempt and I usually only make it up til DAY B4 blood tets, am willing myself to make it past next Friday !!!
Good luck girls on this bumby rollercoast, lets here some good news next week.
I think I will be receiving similar news on Tues, woke up today with a nagging headache & starting to feel irritated with everything - a sure sign AF is on the way. Was so sure this would be my month, not over yet but am not quite so optimistic now
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So sorry
It's so hard going through this
sorry Hannah. keep strong honey.
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