Hi Lissie,
I've never been on IVF, just using Vitex to regulate hormones( it's a herb) and Chinese herbs and acupuncture. I've just ordered a book from the States about getting pg and having a baby over 40, the author had 6 m/c before having her baby at 44. My gynae saw two 46 year old women last year and last I heard they were both almost full term- so it can be done. He and another MMC specialist said to keep ttc as long as I can emotionally handle it. These 2 Drs are very positive and supportive.
Thanks everyone, I was a bit chicken to post this thread but thought- why not- and I'm glad I did.
Jo