Hi bakinggirl,

I understand exactly where you are....Me 40 Dh 46. Dh had a VAS 18 years ago so a reversal was no go. Our only option was ICSI. We are on our third #3 cycle and I found my second though, in fact I said I didn't want to do it again. I luckily fell pregnant and unluckily m/c. So here I go again number 3 and i didn't hesitate. Thing is once I started I realised everything was ok. It gets in your blood and you just keep on keeping on until the jobs done. Believe me I was confused, the money aspect was overwhelming and the odds - well lets not go there. Nobody told me enough and I didn't know what was going to happen next which freaked me out completely. All I can say is...It will be ok...you will be ok and your DH will be ok. Take a leap of faith...

Hope this helps in some small way....

kind regards
Tracey