Hey there,

I don't usually post on this forum but I was just reading through and came across this topic - I hope you don't mind me posting.

Although I cannot say I understand (we have only been ttc for a short period of time) I wanted to say what a great reply the last post was and I wholeheartedly agree. I thought it was a really honest and supportive response.

I do think it is important for you to have someone to speak to and think that setting some realistic ground rules would be helpful too for both you and the other person. I suppose on the one hand it does sound quite structured but on the other it gives you a sense of control and as the last poster said, avoids the other person feeling uncomfortable and you feeling under pressure.

I hope things work out for you. Apologies if I have upset anyone by butting in!

xx